Twelve months have gone by and now is the time to look back at the yesterdays, not to live in blame or pity of what didn’t go well, but rather to identify the Learning points and strengthen the areas of weakness. We thrive as we grab our life lesons so that we can be the best version of ourselves and be a blessing to those who come our way.
It’s time to bang the door on some unpleasant conscious and unconscious practices. “How have you treated those around you?”
Have you been the boss, who gets to work and tension rises to the ceiling?
Remember no one stays below forever. Work on earning respect from people and not fear. You make a lot of friends from respect and a lot of enemies from fear.
Were you the friend who encouraged others or who wanted to be controling?
Do you badly want your friends to look up to you that you fail to encourage them in their struggle for independence, for fear of competition? Throw your fear out the window because no one can do the things you do, the way you do them. In the same way no one can do the things they do the way they do them. Thus encourage them in their efforts for if they grow, you will all achieve more together than alone.
Are you the parent, who unconsciously puts money and business before family?
No body can love a baby s mother. A parent is the first source of protection a child trusts and to be absent is to instill seeds of fear and insecurity in that child. Therefore endeavour to include them in your everyday “to do”list no matter how hard it is. Without which you would be sending them into the world without the tools the need it.
Are you the spouse who complains and blames with a faultess attitude?
There is a limit to what people can tolerate. When your attitude becomes unbearable, they drop you off likef gabbage. Improve by appreciating the very little gestures and youwhole lot of difference in them.
At the end of it all, make a conscious effort not to steal the peace in others. Don’t be a thorn in the flesh because you would scare everyone away and life would be a hell hole when you are old and alone.Transform your lives into a maze of light and be a source of peace. This is how to end the year with a bang
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